I think I can safely say that there are two things we always hear and wish we never heard again. They are: 1) "Are you real?" and 2) "I'm a private person so I can't screen." Dear Lord, people, read.
Technology has really taken AI and chatbots to a whole new level. So, how can you make sure a lady is who she says she is? A quick search online using her phone number or email is all it takes. Look at different profiles and pics, see if she's active on social media, check out posts with other sex workers, and read reviews. That's a quick way to make sure she's legit. Finding a lady who clicks with you personally is a treasure hunt, and treasures are worth the effort.
Once you know she is legit she obviously will want to make sure you are too. That is where screening comes in. Let's face it screening requires a leap of faith. I'm no Walter White, I can't break bad, I super enjoy my life and don't want to burn it down. So how does one not break bad but enjoy a few stollen moments? It comes down to what we all already know. Use your common sense and do some research. Sex work is legal in lots of places, such as Australia. Look for information there. Tryst.link is based out of Australia. They have a wealth of information tailored just for this. I find their information highly valuable. Explore it yourself and form your own opinion:
Feeling safe is crucial for a positive experience for all parties involved (noticed how I said for "all" not "both" let your imagination run wild here lol). Refocusing that is why legitimate ladies screen, every person has different things that make them feel safe just like what you feel safe sharing. So read. Check out their social medial. Read their reviews. Text a bit. Pay attention to your instincts - does it feel right or wrong?
To me, this small corner of the world is a place where one can truly be naked. Not naked in the literal sense, but naked in the sense of being genuine. Show vulnerability. Be truthful. Express your true desires. Be completely open and feel secure in doing so. How do your instincts feel?
❤️Charlotte
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